Pat yourself on the back if you’re reading this. Why? Because the word “discipline” didn’t scare you away!
It’s relatively easy to figure out what you want to change in your life, but the roll-up-your-sleeves, nose-to-the-grindstone consistent effort required often puts people off. It’s hard, often tedious, and stressful to change. Anyone who has tried to quit smoking, for example, knows how difficult it can be. But the same goes for finding a job, losing weight or improving a relationship. Dogged persistence over time makes the difference between success and the current status quo.
This week I found two very inspiring pieces that underscore the need not to just dream, not just set goals but work towards them every single day.
Bil Cornelius in his recently published book, I Dare You to Change, advises that it’s important to believe you can achieve your goals, realize your dreams. But, and it’s a big BUT, you also have to understand that it requires hard work on your part—and not in spurts but daily. Read his wise counsel in his own words and then watch his videos for more inspiration.
In the August issue of Success magazine, columnist John C. Maxwell quotes the former basketball coach John Wooden as saying “Make each day your masterpiece.” He then points to two elements that will “make each day your masterpiece”: decision-making and discipline (there’s that word again!). “Decision-making takes care of goal-setting, but discipline also takes care of goal-getting. Decisions and discipline can’t be separated; one is worthless without the other.”
I like that distinction between goal-setting—which is essential—and goal-getting, which is equally important to achieve results.
Read John Maxwell’s complete article for more reflections on personal growth. And remember, once you’ve set your goal, write down the specific steps to achieve it. Be specific and make sure the steps are small enough that you can contribute to your goal each and every day.