Accept One Another
For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”—Galatians 5:14 (NIV)
Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet you should also wash one another’s feet.—JOHN 13:14 (NLT)
When my mother-in-law, Marie, was dying, my husband, son and I lived a thousand miles away. Still, we made sure to spend Christmas that year at Marie’s house.
One gift I thought of to give Marie was to rub lotion on her feet to help her relax and fall asleep. I took my time with the gentle massage, and after a while, I’d hear her breathing change and know she’d fallen asleep.
In the New Year, daily reports from Marie’s best friend let us know that she was failing fast. I knew we wouldn’t see her again. I struggled to know how to pray for her (and for me).
One day when I was praying, I remembered the joy of rubbing my mother-in-law’s feet. I contemplated each recalled detail: loosening up her calf muscles, rubbing the left ball of her foot, her right heel, each toe from her big toe down to her pinkie. I took my time just as I had when I was there.
Her best friend called me the next day with news. “Marie had a good day yesterday. She was so calm and slept really well.”
Our conversation drifted. I told her that I didn’t know how to pray for Marie anymore. “Yesterday all I did was remember rubbing her feet.”
“I bet that is the very reason Marie had such a good day yesterday. She got a foot massage and God let her feel it.”
Thank you Father, that even uncertain prayers are acceptable offerings to you on behalf of our loved ones.
For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”—Galatians 5:14 (NIV)
This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.—John 15:12 (ESV)
Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times and in every way.—2 Thessalonians 3:16 (NIV)